Today is Valentine’s Day

I’ve spent the last 18 days giving you ideas for Valentine’s Day, so this message will be a short one.

No matter how commercial and hokey the business world makes this day, you can make it a day where you and your lady become much more close and intimate.

Sure…go ahead and do all the things you can think of. But I’m telling you…the most important thing you can do for your lady today is to just LOVE HER. And that means that you become transparent, open and honest with her. Chicks love deep intimate conversation. Give her THAT as your number one gift today.

I just finished reading a book that talked about human beings as conscious beings. It is not that we are a body with consciousness, but we are a consciousness housed in a body. That is your spirit or soul. The book said that the best way to develop a higher quality of consciousness is to lose your ego and practice love.

Ego gets us men into all manner of trouble. Most wars are fought over men’s egos. Haven’t you heard our Presidents say that to end the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan now would be wrong, since our boys would have “died in vain?” That is 100% pure ego talking, not common sense or love.

Most of the trouble in our personal relationships is because we let our ego make decisions for us instead of leading with love. If you work hard to become a man who is loving toward EVERYONE, you will be a man who is much easier to love.

A man who organizes his life around love for all creation is the only kind of man that can be a GREAT LOVER.

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